oh, I finally connected, but i’m still not being able to delete, when I click on delete nothing happens
Yes, it sounds like we had the same experience. It took me a long time to figure out how to get logged in also and then the pink delete buttons wouldn't switch to grey, and I am still not sure what made it start working other than sheer willpower and switching browsers. When it's working, the bullet points next to each relay will change colors.