Lol i just realised I followed myself somehow 😂
What are you using? Could be that your client does it automatically. Primal doesn't do it for example.
This is what I currently use..I’m on Damus..though I’m not sure if I do need this much relays really..any tips? https://image.nostr.build/2ca01db2a94b211401d7319d65839d93d2d619bb1f61a30c909347fac8742ae0.jpg
Use a Blastr instance, the official one is wss://nostr.mutinywallet.com. Be sure to disable reading from it https://github.com/MutinyWallet/blastr/
Jazāk Allāhu Khayran will give this a try
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