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 It's simple and easy to say no:

No.

Just like that. But it's very difficult to stay silent afterwards. That's the important part. 
 Without explaining details? And I think I just make some one piss off at me because of that

But i don’t have enough energy to explain details 🥲 
 Then it's kinda like, No. I don't want to go into details.

But it really depends on the situation. I feel like most people don't get mad, just pushy and annoying asking why you said no. 

If they ask a second time, I'd probably say, Please stop asking, I already said no. 
 Omg you are so strong

I didn’t get into being asked phase just being blocked 🤣

But it’s okay my ego is not hurt I’m just thinking if I didn’t anything wrong 
 No 
 No? 
 No, you didn’t do anything wrong.  🙂 
 Oh 🫣thank you 😚 
 No u