I too stopped definitely when kids came along. However, getting some nice aromatic tobacco, like some Christmas edition from Peterson, was really nice. When kids get bigger, I'll get myself a new tobacco, a big chair, a pair of slippers and some facial hair🤣 

 Hapé or Rapé is a really powerful experience with tobacco. Its made of ashes and powder and some medicine plants. I used it for a period of time. Great for tuning brain hemispheres!