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 In the good old days, you had to walk up to a girl in a bar with a beer matt and a pencil and ask for her number. 

If her friends didn’t like you… no pass.

Then you had to call her house and her mom or dad would answer the phone.

If her parents didn’t like the sound of your voice… no pass.

Today girls have DM’s and I can’t even imagine the horrors therein! I think this alone explains the collapsing birth rate. https://image.nostr.build/8096ebdaa3da99d22c51e99ac240292469c552726ec1422423ec293dfbc2bbe5.jpg  
 Oh... What if I don't want to browse online for a gyal?  
 Do you have a DeLorean? 
 Girls really like that car ;) 
 It's tough to pin it on any one factor, but debasement of money is a strong contender imo. People aren't confident in their money, not their ability to provide for a family with the current situation. Many people put income or savings thresholds or levels at which they would do certain things, for example, get married, buy a house, have a child etc. The thresholds may be psychological, but the pain of delaying a decision like this is real. 
 Met my wife in church in '06 and I feel like I caught the last chopper out of 'nam 
 I’m pretty sure something happened in 2020 which caused the intense spike upwards, but can’t think what it could be… 
 Was the persistent trend? 🤣 
 Looks like the graph shows *couples*. Now imagine what that graph looks like just for sexual encounters.