For self-restraint, pay attention to those who cry out for pacifism. Even when War is the Only option, War is the Worst way. And never forget that pacifism is false when that only seeks the elimination of other people's opinions. The peace that people who have no possibility of changing their minds sing is a disregard for the determinations of others, and is already oppression. Respect strength of competing determination, even if you have to fight it. I do not really want to use the word You because I do not know who you are