women never forget anything , always dredge up the past and they never fight fair. unless she is on a homested RIGHT NOW, she will never agree to anything less than luxury.

30% of all married women have a back up dude.

90% of all single women have a roster.

Do not do anything without a prenup. Hide all your assets. ensure 20-30 years of poverty and struggle ... tell her ahead of time that you have little wealth.

even still, marriages are slated for divorce. those that do not end in divorce are miserable. 

 She's on the farm now, runs the garden and does my chores with the animals if I travel or get sick. Has done this for nearly 3 years. 

When you get a prenup, you can't legally hide assets, or if you can, I'm too poor for that lol.  

 sounds like you're good to go.