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 I get that.

I've gotten wind of some crazy stuff, from both sexes, the last few months, so my divorce-outrage-faucet has run completely dry.
People seem so normal for decades and then... Ugh. No, you didn't. 
 I feel like when it comes to others you don’t really know the truth of their relationships. You only know who that person is to you. I have an ex who was a great friend and absolutely toxic as a boyfriend. 
 The interaction between two people can lead to very different behaviors. People also behave very differently depending on their environment 
 💯 
 Very true.