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 How to πŸ˜€ tell the πŸ˜€ difference between a Good Man, and a Nice πŸ€” Guy πŸ€” When you ask a man to help you with πŸ’― something, a good man πŸŽ‰ will tell you Yes, because he wants to help you, πŸ‘ but a nice πŸ€” guy πŸ˜€ will say πŸ˜€ Yes, because he has a hard time saying No. The Nice Guy will go away grumbling about it, whereas the Good Man πŸ˜€ will be proud of having helped πŸ‘ you. The Good πŸ”₯ Man understands 🌈 and values boundaries, whereas πŸ”₯ the Nice Guy has a hard πŸŽ‰ time πŸ’― with boundaries. πŸ€” The Good Man will ask you on a date, whereas the Nice Guy will ask you to hang out. He might as 🌈 you to coffee, but he’ll rarely 🌈 use πŸ€” the words date. There πŸ’― is πŸŽ‰ a πŸ’― scale between being Nice Guy and Good Man, and most Nice Guys move towards πŸ˜‚ being Good Men as they πŸ’― grow in πŸ˜€ confidence, but if you’re a lady picking πŸ‘ a potential spouse, don’t pick a Nice Guy hoping that he’ll chance, pick a man who is already πŸŽ‰ at the level you want πŸ‘ him, as expecting πŸ”₯ him to chance is one of 🌈 the top mistakes women make when choosing πŸ’― a partner. πŸ‘