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 I need a personal HR department to navigate around people and feelings.  
 People are too peopley  
 I try to avoid all 3😬😂. 
 I wish I could 
 Noooooo 
 I’ve noticed that things work much better when I attempt to navigate and not barge straight through 
 True.  I’ve learned to ask more questions before saying anything and sometimes maybe not saying anything at all 
 learning is fun i think 
 HR departments can't navigate shit. You need a   team of real experts.

You need a behavioral therapist.

Hostage negotiator. 

As well as a motivational speaker.

On call. 24/7/365. 
 Hahahaha 
I definitely need a hostage negotiator 
 why you need them for? ☺️ Are you dealing with high stake people?  
 I don’t really. Just joking around about it. 🙂 
 lol
if you are curious to learn on the subject you can try to check the below:
What Every BODY Is Saying by Joe Navarro
and
How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Caregie

Have fun!❤️👌 
 I just put on headphones and listen to my music.
At times there’s nothing even playing.

That’s how I deal with difficult or bored people.
 
 +1 for headphones, preferably with music 😂 
 When they ask you to take them off so they can whine, always look like you’re very busy/slightly irritated 😂🤌🏾 
 Yeah but i work with very senior  engineers in the development/ construction industries.
These motherfuckers are so old they made drawings on stone tablets when they were coming up. 
So you know they’re toxic af and not wanting to care if I’m listening or not 
 Drawings on stone tablets 😂😂 
 Ah, I hear your frustration. I wonder what your human design is? 🤔 As a Manifesting Generator I've learned that frustration often signals that I am not following my strategy and authority, so I make an effort to pivot to where there's less resistance. But also, I've found that our relationships often mirror something within us seeking to be resolved. Which could be a great opportunity for self reflection and massive breakthroughs at times. Sending a big hug 🤗🫂 
 How do I find out what my human design is? What does it entail? 
 You can get a free profile created based on birth info here:  https://www.jovianarchive.com/get_your_chart 
Do you know your birth time?