Most people have serious problems coming to terms with the fact that "jurisdictional arbitrage" means more often than not moving to places where they don't want to live.

Hear me out: that's only if you want to do things 100% above board. At some point we will be forced to give up one of the following:
1. Our way of life, by moving to a place we don't like in principle at least
2. Our wealth, by surrendering it to our government in exchamge for staying where we want to live
3. Our safety and peace of mind, by working in the gray and black legal areas of the jurisdiction where we want to live
 

 My problem is knowing where I can go to give up point 1 without also eventually giving up point 2 and 3. 

 Well you're right at that, because that may end up happening too. See how lately so many formerly tax-friendly countries are cancelling their pro-digital nomad programs. Portugal being a glaring example.