Would it be possible to look into Soapbox.pub and their server Ditto? Apparently it is a Nostr relay that also acts a fediserver with its bridge called Mostr. So basically giving you the best of both worlds.

If it a good choice, it would be nice If JB hosted it's own server so it would make onboarding on Nostr easier and still be able to communicate. Plus we can support eachother with our lightening wallets.

https://soapbox.pub

https://fountain.fm/episode/WzXGxvsJBgZtPmtPebkD

nostr:nevent1qvzqqqpxquqzqp6hvqcs0y75cuxcpk7v6s637cnlq9ge9w39xsxas6w74u2stxxtay9p5z 

 Its the only good nostr relay and web ui that is built well