And you, my friend, are allowed to piss in the wind.
It’s not pissing into the wind. Already I’ve begun to have a constructive dialogue with a reasonable individual who shares similar concerns to my own and understands the problems of the entire scope and doesn’t just try to put things off on one side or the other, acknowledging that there are faults to multiple sides.
Whatever solutions are proposed, however, may be a different story. But the key to reaching a middle ground and understanding is working together instead of playing red versus blue with sexes.