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 The privacy and security space is one of the most toxic on the internet. It seems to attract many of a certain kind of paranoid and hostile personality that is neither healthy nor productive to interact with regularly in this context.

For this reason and more, I will be posting less about digital privacy and security as a primary focus on this account moving forward.

"The whole is more than the sum of its parts." — Aristotle

Information security is only one part of holistic, purposeful living, and I will be sharing more on my life's work, focusing on the big picture—the total package—moving forward.

Big announcement coming soon™ 
 I always tell people that I prefer preparation over paranoia. One is productive. The other isn't. Of course, I often have to stop and check myself and realign with what's healthy for me. I look forward to seeing more from you. 
 Thank you. I agree. It's an important practice.

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 That sucks I always look forward to your recommendations  
 Thank you! It's great to know that you find value in the content. Privacy and security topics will not be eliminated but will be integrated in proper proportion and context moving forward. 
 You sell a class by any chance or consultations? 
 I do. However, due to its personalized nature, time and spaces are limited. I have a few spots opening up soon, but to be honest, I can't help everyone, and not everyone is a good fit. I'm only working with people in this capacity on a "best fit" basis.

Send a DM telling me a little about what you expect to achieve and why. I'll look it over with the other submissions this month. If it sounds like I can add massive value, I'll share the details of what I have to offer, the cost, and we'll see if we're a good fit to move forward. 
 how far out are you booked? I'm swamped and would need to plan at least a month out anyways. I will gladly send you the info.  
 DM sent 
 Dm sent over amethyst maybe will work  
 Got it. Thanks! 
 Looking forward to learning more about what you’ve got coming! I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with the toxicity. You’ve done folks a huge service on here with your reliable information. 
 Thank you for the kind words. It means a lot!Privacy and security topics will not be eliminated but will be integrated in proper proportion and context moving forward. 
 I’m paranoid and gruff, not hostile. Big difference. 🫂 
 You're a good egg.

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 Thanks for sharing your suggestions in the past. Including suggesting Snowdens book. I have drastically changed my security habits and become more conscious of the risks. 
 Thank you! That makes me happy to hear :) 
 Look forward to seeing what you have planned. My threat model is very low risk but I appreciate all the info and even the most basic people should have some awareness in this day and age. 
 Thank you so much! I completely agree. 
 I’m cool with whatever direction you want to take, ava.

Up only. 
 Thx Paulo! 
 You are one of the reasons I stay, thank you ava for always speaking the hard truth. 
 Thank you so much. You are a such a treasure. It means a lot! 
 That sounds or teads exciting should I say. Have a great weekend. 
 Thanks! It really is ✊🏻 Have a great weekend! 
 there are two types of privacy guys: “someone’s watching me” and “i’m an advertising product.” being in the first group isn’t healthy, unless you’re very special. 
 I understand what you're getting at, but people are watching you, and awareness of this fact is important. 

Government overreach and surveillance capitalism is a very real threat to feedom and privacy. You cannot have freedom without privacy.

However, responding strategically and with situational awareness is much healthier and more effective than reacting with a hostility that more resembles a kind of paranoid schizophrenia.

No disrespect intended, and much love to those who have this condition and are working on it. 
 yes, i missed the “i’m aware of being watched” type - that’s the one we should be to effectively fight for change while still having a decent life. it’s just that i’ve met a few severely paranoid guys, and hell, they’re the most unhappy ones i know :( 
 I've learn so much from you ava 💜
Exciting time ahead 
 Thank you so much! Exciting times, indeed 💜 
 I found your post on #opsec very helpful and insightful, I will miss all those posts. 
 Thank you for the kind words! I'm glad you found them valuable. To be clear, privacy and security topics will not be eliminated; however, they will be integrated in proper proportion, context, and engagement moving forward. 

Exciting times for what's to come! 
 The most toxic is the Bitcoin space, nothing can beat it. LOL 
 It's up there 🫂💜 
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 Well said 💜✊🏻💜 
 Don't give into the pressure. Toxicity for this often comes from cognitive dissonance or from a deep discovering sense that they were misled or being too excessive about their approach. Certain security/privacy actions come with spending money and time and people aren't often willing to accept that their money or time was lost.  
 Thank you for the encouragement! It means a lot. 

To be clear, while I am discouraged by the effects those people have within the space and the toll it takes on privacy advocates to help educate others who have been turned off by the whole scene as a result, I am also excited to be sharing my life's passion and work, which offers a holistic approach to helping people live a life of freedom, privacy, purpose, and meaning.

Privacy and security topics will not be eliminated; however, they will be integrated in proper proportion, context, and engagement moving forward.

Exciting times for what's to come! Keep up the great work.