did you read the thing about bluesky trust and safety team working overtime on their user influx?  how theyre drowning in moderation?

this is not the future of nostr i want to see.

the only way i see this working is outbox, smaller relays, manageable relays, managed by small groups of people that are aligned in their values.. same for media links.

amethyst is doing well, it takes time, but what other clients are doing is scary road to trust and safety megacorp.

this is a large part of why i dont advertise much, i dont want to be a big relay nor do i want to use big relays because then im part of the problem and not the solution.

having fine grain relay selection, easily doable in amethyst with a few more iterations.  other clients, its not clear to me that they want to do any of this. 

 I did see it and I do agree its a massive problem and small relays are the solution. But small relays is just decentralized moderation. The moderation is still there, just run by thousands of relay runners instead of an organized central point. Which is better, but the infra to moderate in a decentralized way needs to be there. 

That's why you me relay ops interfaces are so crucial to the future of nostr.