Yeah I agree, and I believe it's more complicated also because in the last six months number of features increased exponentially and Nostr evolved.

replyguy was a big thing and a problem for basically all users.. somehow, fixed now even for normies.

Discover ability for example now is thousands times better thanks to latest primal update and many clients will copy or upgrade that so all protocol will benefit from it and that was one of the main issues for nostr usage by popular opinion.

In the end, I am positive on hiw things are changing and keeping up with all of it I agree is super challenging and overwhelming, but it's early and everyone will focus on what they need most and learn what they need if they have the right incentives to do so.