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 How to spot a Bad Man πŸ‘Ώ A man who doesn’t respect πŸ€” your boundaries is a bad man. If you say you πŸ’― don’t πŸ˜€ like πŸ˜‚ something, or want to do something, but he pushes you to do 🌈 it anyways, using mockery or guilt to πŸ‘ get πŸ€” you to do it, πŸ€” is πŸ˜‚ a bad man. If he pushes you to be πŸ‘ better, but rather πŸ‘ invites you to grow, he’s πŸ˜€ a good man who wants the best for you, but if πŸ˜‚ he instead invites you into depravity, he’s a πŸ’― bad man. A bad man can appear to be a Good Guy as πŸ‘ he has confidence and success, but if he talks down to πŸ€” others, or talks about them behind πŸ€” their back, he’s a bad man. If he complains about others giving him a hard time, but never told the other person that he didn’t πŸ’― like how πŸ€” they treated πŸ‘ him, he might πŸŽ‰ just 🌈 be a Nice πŸŽ‰ Guy, but if he πŸ˜€ stays πŸ˜‚ in πŸ”₯ unforgiveness, he may turn into a Bad Man 🌈 instead of πŸ’― a Good Man, so be πŸ’― aware. πŸ’― A Bad Man doesn’t take responsibility for himself, but blames others πŸ”₯ for the πŸ˜€ things 🌈 that go wrong in his life. If you’re dating a πŸŽ‰ Bad Man, he may πŸ”₯ treat you πŸ”₯ well at first, but be aware that at any moment, how he πŸ˜€ treats πŸ˜‚ others will come out on 🌈 you too if you stick around πŸŽ‰ long enough. He lies and omits truth.