No, Damus is great!  But Apple forbid them to allow Zaps, so there was a 3rd party web-app workaround…and I got it setup so I can send Zaps, but it was complicated, and I’ve since forgotten the details of how I set it up and why I don’t receive any Zaps.

Just an issue for iDevice users. 

 Don't worry @Tomoko , we can zap the user, just not the note. 

 that's good know. 
i am not using nostr with my iphone at this point. not trusting my phone much ha