Giving the “Freedom to get rekt” as an optional opt-in after providing a reasonable warning/education seems like a great way to handle a situation like this. 
I don’t know enough about the technical aspects to judge either implementation, but seems like the friction will hopefully drive the developers to better solutions in the long run 🤞 

 Agreed, I like that there are strong opinions on how it should be built but also maintain respect for the users 

 Mutiny isn’t even a viable option for iOS users for connecting your node and zapping so they can cry all they want but they are alienating a whole subset of nostr bitcoiners