maybe it's not about having confidence in ourselves, but in life. I struggle a lot with self confidence but when I truly face that, I usually notice there are things for me to drop that are not my responsibility. I notice that I'm trying to receive something from someone else and not really being with myself and feeling what comes. does it make any sense to you? 

 It’s complicated that’s for sure!

I guess it depends on one’s definition of confidence, and what that means in daily life