my more feminist friends are total hypocrites.  They say the want one thing, men that are more caring and less "toxic" but then they mock thier man for not taking charge.🙄 

 Are the two mutually exclusive though? Does a man have be toxic to take charge? Cannhe be caring and a leader? 

 
 you can do something 
AND do it like an asshole. That's toxic.

Im lucky to be surrounded by men that are natural leaders, and great fathers.
#blessed 
 

 I love this for you! There is indeed wonderful role models all around of great men and leaders. More of that in the world, please! Calling it in for me as well. 😌