The playbook is always accuse the victims of what the criminals are doing to them.
The Hamas Charter explicitly calls or genocide against the Jews. It's their only core value. Yale University has an excellent translation of the charter available to the public online. You might want to have a look at it.
Hey if you're on nostr you're probably a really great critical thinker. I encourage you to not believe everything Yale university tries to use to justify legally killing children. I encourage you to see what entities not controlled by the west are saying on the topic.
The Hamas Charter has been on Yale's website for many years. You can pick up a copy somewhere else. The translation won't change. If you think killing Jews is OK but Israel fighting back against Hamas is not, then I'd suggest you engage in some critical thinking of your own. It may surprise you that many critical thinkers see a third way...one that does not involve killing anyone.