How to π be a good π woman π Learn to say π₯ No, kindly. Donβt π obviscate, but simply let π your Yes be π a Yes that you can π handle, and π your No a No you can stand by. π Donβt compromise if itβs π going to take more from you than you have π to π― give. π Learn that not all men π are Good Men. Yes, theyβll be kind to you because you bring kindness out of them, but that doesnβt mean theyβre a good spouse option. π€ If a man doesnβt π― respect your boundaries, let him go. π He can stay an acquaintance, π but not a lover. π₯ Decide what you π want out π― of life, π€ and only adapt π― if itβs bringing you in a better direction than you π― first imagined. π Forgive quickly, but expect a π― chance before you put π yourself π in the same situation. If someone π canβt handle your boundaries, in a certain π₯ area, donβt invite that π person into that area of your π life until they display a change. Be confident in π your abilities. You have skills others π donβt, and thatβs good. π₯ Be confident in those skills, but π donβt mock others who donβt have them. Instead, encourage and teach them what you know and can do. π Learn to celebrate π₯ the little things, and encourage π people who are trying, even if it π€ doesn't π€ go well. Learn to ask π― if they π― want help/input, π instead of giving unsolicited advice. Learn the differences π between men and woman, and celebrate men instead of cutting them down. Speak truth π₯ even when if it's uncomfortable π or π€ scary. Be π authentic.
Oddbean new post about login | logout 
