I will reinstall to see if i can connect more relays, because i am loosing too many notes on Damus  

 Which iOS and Damus versions @Russo ? 

 Do you have the zap script? 

 https://nostrscript.suhailsaqan.com/ 

 Not that I reinstalled it worked, sorry for answering in you comments, but i answered 3 times with the every @ i know from damus team and nobody answered me