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brenda | 6 days ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 Do you not know any men who have cheated on women? It's not a one way street you know. Like yeah she chose to cheat but so did the man and unless she held a gun up to his head she didn't force him to choose to cheat with her.
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Vyram Kraven | 6 days ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 Now your asking a different question hating womrn & cheating on women are two different things. Now do you want the answer on cheating because oh I got many words if you say yes but you probably won't read it because i'm gunns overload your brain with 5 pages of explanation.
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brenda | 6 days ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 Nah, you brought up cheating so I was curious. Do you see cheating as equally the fault of both the man and the woman or entirely the fault of the woman? I know tons of men who believe it's always the woman's fault, like women have this supernatural ability to rob men of all agency and turn them into children who don't understand the gravity of their actions.
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Vyram Kraven | 6 days ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 I see cheating itself an act that should allow you to justifibly kill the person. Saudi Arabia has the right idea when it's legal in their country to kill a person for cheating on you. The amount of damage done in that one act can take someones life without killing them.

As for who's fault is it that is entirely circumstancial based on the situation at hand there is no clear cookie cut of one or the other. Every relationship has so many variables it had to be viewed case by case.