Muting alone is not enough because it doesn't scale, it's too delayed and reactive, and it can end up a game of whack-a-mole because they can create a zilllion npubs.
Then maybe raw Nostr is not for you. Maybe check out Ditto, it's a more fedi-like experience.
Eventually I think there will be relays where girls can hang out by themselves and then there will be other relays with a moderator that try to make the women comfortable by banning some of the men from that relay. But it’ll be centralized and some things will be censored to protect the users. Which is still an improvement from traditional social media because you own your data.
Great idea, you just invented https://spinster.xyz
Agree. You can put walled gardens on an open protocol, while other people hang out in the Wild West.
Isnt that what communities is tho ?
It's not just interesting for women, either. If someone wants to have an Islamic finance community, they probably don't want to spend all day muting people who just show up to scream at some Muslims and post caricatures, as that defeats the whole purpose of meeting up.
Remember, even Twitter hasn't yet solved the spam problem. This was my conclusion after thinking about this problem for a while: nostr:nevent1qqs9ereuwvtezefdz7vlqqfx0rwhssyn9vy9dans0ue73pkh3xnd7mqpz3mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wd68ytnzvupzpwe42kl97st2z7kzp59s0k83fvgnwyuaxwjvr4htfyumx2rknpfzqvzqqqqqqyzvcqw3