Matrix can be run Sovereignly. This helps as you are in full control of who you add into the rooms. Also, you can customize the server where no emails are used. It goes without saying don't dox yourself with a username. Also, if you federated with only other sovereign runners of their Matrix instance your attack vector is highly minimizesd. 

 It's ok for government, enterprise, etc., but not for casual users. 

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