Will you accept coinjoined utxos when you have doubts the next person you wanna transact with will accept it? 

They will delist Monero, sure. If we are serious about building a parallel society, we should embrace the separation from the normies. 

 If we're serious about building a parallel society, doesn't this also include accepting conjoined utxos and transacting in a truly p2p manner?  

 I do not see why we should use a traceable currency at all.