in that both are servers yes but a fedi instance is a walled fort, owner of your experience, id, etc

nostr relays are dumb sluts everyone fucks regularly 

 @StephanGuy 

And is fucking dumb slots a good idea?

No! The spam on nostr instantly makes fedi better and more desirable.  There has to be similar features 

 nostr doesnt have a spam problem

rather than similar features i would like better 

 @StephanGuy 

Yo don't see the spam? Your client must be filtering. It's really bad.. so many of Chinese porn posts 

 nope, yep there is filters, currently not using global, is porn spam?