I have to read more about this part and listen to other devs, you also commented on something similar a few days ago and it also left me thinking 

 Yes..nobody is listening to me.
The ditto relay is actually designed correctly and built for scale.  Not ready yet  

 How is it different? 

 Ditto is built like the Fediverse on the backend  and has administrative controls . Soapbox is the webui. A proven modern web interface  

 That jb retard kept going on and on about how you shouldn't be able to delete things, I honestly think he's actually retarded. 

 Yes and he said postgres was not good for nostr lol

Mastodon, fedi has million of users on postgres