Bitcoiners set an unrealistic and unnecessarily high bar for adoption when they demand 100% self custody in regards to lightning. That is how we lose. How we win is by being reasonable and responsible with what we advise others to do.  

 1000%. If you aren't a sysadmin expert, you probably should not be running an LN node. You're at way higher risk of fucking something up than getting rug pulled by a custodial wallet  

 Yea. Not a node runner. Non custodial lightning address is hard. Tried to make sense of Zeus. Gave up and settled on Mutiny+, only to discover that fedimint just got borked. Guess I’m still stuck using kyc custodial  wallet. 
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