attempting to ressurect my nostr by adding wot.utxo.one to my relay list.  

something very wrong with amethyst, i may have destroyed my nostr experience by following 'too many', or having 'too many' lists.  wish i could tell what exactly is happening.  its supposed to be outboxin, but ... 'too early?'

is it because everyone is on primal now and their messages are simply not available if im not on primal?  this is scary.. 

 add INBOX Relays correctly 
reduce following count
make list 

 ya i guess i need to reduce the lists and follows to see if it makes a difference. 😭 

the problem is, tools that reduce the list will be just as likely to be wrong as my own client.  ie, it may just unfollow all of primal. 

 Not sure if this will help but it helped me after I started messing with my relays. Took some fiddling but I think it's finally working better than it was before. After some periods of it working much worse 😅 
nostr:naddr1qq9hyetvv9uj6um9w36hqq3qgcxzte5zlkncx26j68ez60fzkvtkm9e0vrwdcvsjakxf9mu9qewqxpqqqp65wjvcq4q