If you want to make a chat client you use NIP-29. There are other clients that do it, like https://chat29.pages.dev/groups.0xchat.com'zcfCdcfn7b27TYtw/ and https://groups.nip29.com and 0xchat etc -- am I misunderstanding you? 

 yeah i guess you just want me to spend more free time writing Yet another chat client to embed in my existing client :p