Thunder started a family with an individual from a neighbor nation, her own nation was in the direct war with just 3 decades ago. Different nationality, different religion, war history behind two countries. That’s all I’m gonna say. 
Children were made orphans back then. I don’t care if those children were Bosnian, Serbian or Croatian. I don’t pick who I feel sorry for. There are no “our children” and “their children”, there are people with names and faces who suffered. I feel sorry we went through it. I believe it was someone else’s agenda and we were all too stupid not to see it. Full stop. It breaks my heart to see these young generation still falling for these agendas. 
But anyway, what i mentioned above in this note and what my note yesterday was about, are two different events with years between them, not connected whatsoever. 

 It was the agenda of Milosevic and the Serbian govenment who stoked the flames of Serbian nationalism. NATO was justified in what they did. 

 What I sound like is a person who knows a thing or two about Serbia, Yugoslavia and what happened in the 90s. Considering that the war was started by serbian ethnonationalists, it is rich accusing me of the same thing. Serbs should accept what they did, just like the Germans faced their own nazi past. 

 Spoken like a true statist, unable to break out of the statist paradigm. If you were worth the time and effort you could probably list 10 bad things the Serbian state did... and the individual you're attacking could write an essay about why she'd morally appose each one. But it would be pointless, because you're dumb.