indeed, and i should point out, i'm not picking on her because of what her chromasomes are, plenty of XXs on here have got some fire from me as well, you can even see a couple of them still mute me
if i were to go easy on someone because of such a thing that would make me a bigot
going easy on a beginner is different... easy way to avoid sounding like an idiot is to admit you are a beginner, or that you are just thinking out loud or talking through your hat, probably
nothing grinds my gears more than people pretending to be experts and saying utterly dumbshit
oops, I meant XYs but whatever