I keep coming back to reputation as well. It just seems fragile. Maybe it’s supposed to be. 

I also think it’s better to post into a public void and be aware that you are basically giving the words away, than posting on centralized platforms, where  there are miles of legal text of what will and won’t be done with your content which is then changed on a whim anyway. I just think we haven’t quite wrapped our heads around the fact that nostr is in fact a public square.