People's livelihoods have been destroyed for not playing along with pronouns. People have been led to suicide for identifying too strongly with pronouns. It's extremely unhealthy in either direction.
that's a really shallow and nonsensical characterization of gender dysphoria
An app or webpage that allows you to update/view pronouns for nostr profiles might get more traction than some other projects because it seems to trigger lot of people. My pronouns will be floppy/fd0.