Well I don't hate you lol. Can't say I'm a fan of the moderation, or agree with the methods used, but you're doing the work and I respect the effort you put in.  

 :-D We do also show mutual contacts in Nos because we feel that is the fastest way to see if you’d be interested in this person’s content.

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 Nice, I haven't tried Nos but now I will. This method makes sense to everyone imo