my point is that trying to propose that the cause of this is gender and the female persona is unproductive because that is a lazy evaluation, and it's generally a good rule, so attacking a good rule is stupid

better to defuse the situation by pointing out that some people get accused of being crazy, on drugs, and AIs, and that being suspicious is not a crime nor is voicing your suspicions but what is crappy is not backing down when you are wrong 

 He's so obviously wrong and his lackys are doubling-down and it's like 😬 

 ok but attacking people and not principles is worthless