I think it really comes down to the lack of people that are on this protocol. You have to keep in mind that it's only 3 years old. The devs are building it as fast as they can without having that much funding. So they're doing it at their own expense with their own free time [there are exceptions obviously (Opensats contributing)]. But I think what you're feeling is the growing pains of being early to something that is revolutionary. It's not supposed to be easy and it's not supposed to be comfortable. Otherwise it wouldn't be worth it.
Stick around and dont give up. You got this 🫂