Well, I agree and find it equally odd considering the state of Nostr and what it seeks to achieve. I put in a part-time just do use freedom versions of what takes other people no thought at all, but my hope is to have everyone do that at some point without all the time we put in. The number of Apple users is particularly baffling to me.
But I do understand to an extent because being a 'deep' user who really digs in and takes time to report bugs can be an entire job in itself across all of this software, in my experience.
To go and apply the same amount of time and energy to just reporting bugs is probably daunting.
We just need to all be patient with each other I think. You're right that hate and anger won't ultimately solve any of these issues.