None of these things matter, family is what really matters. You can't turn yourself into a king/queen but without a family you are just a grain of dust lost in the winds of time. Nothing worst than to amass wealth and die without no one to care for it, old, alone and sick. A tombstone without flowers, tears or goodbye's is a death not even the poor covet.  

 Agreed, but it’s not mutually exclusive you can have a family and money. 

 Sure I totally agree. 

 Family is an extension of you, your blood, your lineage, your history. A man who doesn't know his roots will never grow into a big tree. That's my opinion. Money is earthly.