A man with experience need never bow to a man with an opinion.
For better or worse, that would make consulting impossible.
Unless thean with an opinion also has a gun and orders it
The man who brought the gun seems to have more experience in these situations. They are playing different games.
I feel compelled to point out that "not listening" is a big driver for getting us where we are in mainstream society.
Everyone gets an opinion but all opinions aren't created equally