You ever see an Asian woman and her daughter and the mother is doing everything she can to not look Asian?  I feel sad for those kids. 

 thankfully my mother isn't like that, she married a filipino and had a son

but I recognize and hate that phenomena here in the US

https://i.poastcdn.org/203badf5d1f7bbcb4a45837e3344d33ce9dd7a3aad225881da039ef3844d8431.jpg