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 Yeah, they need to not be creepy. 
 creepy is your way of saying unattractive 

there are plenty of unattractive women who give me attention 

it isn’t creepy, it is just not reciprocal 

saying it is creepy is an attempt to elevate your status if it is not immediately recognizable 
 The fact you think this way tells me you’re like creepy.

It’s not an attractiveness thing, it’s a delivery issue. 
 valid if your true repulsive instincts kick in, not just wishing — without action — that more attractive men would pay you more attention 
 adults aught to be mature enough to handle the recognition of attractiveness and then get on with their day 
 Wut?