This happens sometimes with minor stuff to me too, I tell a relative to be careful because certain thing went wrong in the past or didn't go as expected, as in I'm caring about them, I'm not making fun about them, and they get annoyed. It tends to be in things they half-ass most of the time, and they complain to me about it... sigh, like they don't care about doing the thing well or trying to improve, it's infuriating. 

 Some of the stuff in this video literally happened to me. 
youtube.com/watch?v=A-Eldr7aV74