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 Yes, reducing occasion to sin, for both sides. 💯

I have always had that sort of setup, and that has actually reduced my incentive to leave, when we've had an argument. I can leave with enough for a down-payment on an apartment and a car, just by grabbing my phone and walking down the street to my uncle's house.

Feeling trapped induces panic and increases sneakiness and vindictiveness.