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 Pretty based that you realized what matters in life so early 

I realized it a bit late but still adapted, made a clear decision, plan and goal and now working towards those goals to become a sovereign individual 
 Having my own outdoor space was always a priority. As a child I loved hiking, camping, bushcraft, being close to nature.

The only thing I didn't realize is how important having kids is. That didn't click until my 30s, which I why my life took a sudden new direction with a new partner. Talk about mid-life crisis. 😅 
 Can understand that! I’m not yet there with kids but I can imagine that it’s the most fulfilling thing in life 
 I think many of us get distracted and dissuaded  from having kids. Like many difficult decisions in life, it never seems like the right time.
I was lucky that I didn't decide to have a child, it happened when I least expected it, when I didn't feel ready for it. But it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened in my life.

Obviously I can't speak for your situation. 
Just my 2 sats.

Enjoy being a newly wed first. 🫂 
 Thank you so much! Appreciate it