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 Man I even offered to buy dinner because he was complaining about car insurance costs. If that’s not enough for him to come visit me, well then, shit, signal received. 
 That fuckhead was stringing you along half ass for weeks. He was playing this game at the start. "Muh grandma...muh work!" 

Aka: I'm not 100% into you, but I'm not 100% not into you, so I'ma keep you on the backburner while I continue to browse for someone I might like a little bit better. 

Imo, men are on dating apps because they want women, period. If a man is into you HE WILL LET YOU KNOW. It won't be iffy. You'll know. 

He'll want to be taking up your time in case some other man gets you first and he will be texting, calling, asking you to hang out and will be telling his Grandma "sorry, I can't make it" instead of you. 

Imo-don't waste your time on no wishy washy-ass man. Only entertain a man that shows that he is making you a priority without having to be asked to. 

I saw your pic. Even with a helmet on, I could see you are pretty. You don't need to pay fo no man's dinner. FACTS!!! 
 I’m a bit annoyed because I asked him what he had been up to since I hadn’t talked to him since Sunday where he told me he had the week off from work and he said nothing much, just doing stuff in his shop and with Colin (I don’t know who Colin is??). So then I asked if we were ever going to do anything or if I should just go on and he said “idk I have a lot going on and I’ve been super busy” and I’m just thinking “you just said you haven’t been doing anything you dope”. Well, I didn’t say that but just told him good luck with everything. And he said sorry. 🤷‍♀️ 
 Drop this loser. He needs to make time for you. 

"Waaaah, women are so hard to find" the men on the internet say... 
 FDS, FDS!!