Or setup your own relay. 

If you're an existing node runner, then your OS of choice  @umbrel or  @Start9 for example, have private relays already available.

Or for around $5 a month you can setup a relay on the clear net, this is a good example of how to do this:
https://usenostr.org/relay



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